It sucks knowing that some guys give girls way too much attention. That’s a mistake. Never give a female your attention, or let her know how you feel about her. That too, is unforgivable. They say that they want a sensitive guy, but trust, nothing creeps a girl out more than intimacy. Who knows what females want today. It’s not like it used to be. Being chivalrous will only get you laughed at or called “soft” (but then they wonder where all the nice guys are and why they’re with a thug…) We’re all better off doing our own thing, chasing the paper, and letting the women follow. Where there’s money, there are females.
Women are just as selfish, self-conscious, and annoying as men. They aren’t a different species or being. If you have a brain, you can think like a girl. Girls constantly look for guys that are weak, so that they can mold their “man” into the person they want. They’re always asking, “why do you like me so much?” or “what do you like about me?” They lack confidence just as much as the next person. Like my friend said, stop asking so many questions! Some people just have different tastes.
Furthermore, girls that always complain about the guys they date are hilarious. They talk about how guys in their lives are the worst guys. Well, why do you keep attracting these guys? Nobody is forcing you to be with these guys, but you’re choosing to be with them. At the end of the day, it’s your fault. Stop blaming others for your poor judgment. Stop messing relationships up for guys that mean well because you can’t find a good man. And stop overlooking good men while you look for the perfect 100% guy. Sorry ladies, but there is no man who is perfect. Are you perfect?
Sadly, there are seas full of weak dudes who will bend over backwards for a woman; another human being, probably with more flaws than him. That’s what I don’t understand. How are people willing to dedicate their lives to people when they don’t even know themselves?
These guys that have no backbones are willing to do everything for their girl. They make it hard for other guys to get into the equation because now, the female is expecting to be treated like a queen. I’m sorry, but a relationship is mutual. If you don’t have something to bring to the table, why am I busting my ass for you? Answer is simple. I’m not. I’m tired of seeing people hanging all over another person because they don’t have any confidence in themselves. Have you ever been around someone who doesn’t feel right unless they’re in a relationship? They’re looking for love in all the wrong places. Yea, that’s sad as hell if you ask me, because they’ll never find peace with someone else until they find peace with themselves.
No matter what we do, we can’t change people. Even if I could, I don’t want to change people. That’s not my concern nor my problem. People who lack the proper preparation in life need to go out on their own limbs and fix their flaws. When people step to me incorrectly, I’ve decided to just let them continue to talk. I might not be the person who is going to react, but many people don’t have the same patience as I do. So, I’m going to let cowards continue to talk their stuff and let someone else put them in your place.
I’ve lost good friends in my life, but that’s the way it goes. It’s always interesting to see how people who sweated me, stole my style, and fed off of my positive attitude turn on me, forgetting who put them in their current position. People who complain and moan all day as if they have the whole world on their shoulders, I’ve got no time for them. Not to be narcissistic, but those that I took under my wings have forgotten who got them their “status.” Now that’s all they care about and they’ve forgotten about me. I’m not tripping though. I’m glad I was introduced to them because now I know to look out for me and mine.
This semester, it’s time for a change. I have to stop fighting against the path that the universe chose for me and just travel with the flow. The game changes every year, but the players remain the same. I’m sure someone has been in my position before, and for that, I thank them.
It always seems as though I can always do for others, but not for myself. Those time have to end. I’m here to live life and anyone whose with me can jump on board, otherwise, get left behind.